On
May 9, Linda Holden, age 51, of Underhill, died suddenly from a brain
tumor. Her death shocked and saddened family, friends, and members of
the Barony of All Vermont, a predominantly gay fundraising organization
that is part of a nationwide Court system. The following remembrances
came from her son, Michael Holden ("Autumn" in the Barony),
and Kris Rowley ("Baron I Kristoff").
"Ariel was one of those Moms that
every gay child wants to have. Even though she didn't understand my
lifestyle at first, she accepted me with open arms. She loved me for
who I was, her son.
"In 1999 Ariel was diagnosed with
kidney cancer. She fought it bravely and seemed to have won the battle.
In February of 2004 we found that the cancer wasn't beaten. It had spread
to her leg, and in April we found out that it had spread to her brain.
She fought the cancer with everything she had, but in the end it was
too much for her. When her time was up, she left peacefully, surrounded
by the love of her family, friends, and other loved ones." - Autumn
(Michael Holden)
"Ariel was full of surprises. She
was raised on a farm here in Vermont. She led a simple life. She married
her childhood sweetheart, Kendal, 35 years ago, raised her son and daughter,
and was a member of the Grange and the American Legion. The meaning
of GBLT was totally foreign to her.
"When her son, Michael, came out,
Ariel loved him for who he is, not what he is. She was like that with
everyone. Ariel joined the Barony of All Vermont to support Michael
(Autumn), but it became much more than that for her. She made her own
friends and found her own place in our organization. But she did not
judge.
"She had so much fun with everyone
and really loved and cared about so many people. She got to experience
her first strip show, got drunk with us for the first time in many years,
and simply cut loose. Not only did she learn to break down her own preconceived
barriers within the Imperial Court System, but we also learned not to
judge a book by its cover where she was concerned! So much for the simple
farm girl from Vermont!
"The theme of Ariel's reign was Music,
Love, and Laughter and she lived it every day. She gave love and received
love. Her laugh was infectious. She filled the hearts of her friends
with music. She was a very special lady and will be missed by so many
people. We are honored to have had her as our Baroness and our friend.
I know that I will miss her very much." - Baron I, Kristoff, Barony
of All Vermont
The May 22 Barony event in Brattleboro
that was to have been a surprise in Ariel’s honor became a memorial
to her life and brief reign in the Barony of All Vermont.